Thinking about my future used to consist of me closing my eyes, imagining an ‘after college’ life that I could only dream of. Living in my apartment or with a significant other outside of Memphis, this place I once hated. Writing, because writing is the end-all, be-all. Writing is what I am. My future would be filled with happiness and love. My future would be perfection because I would be the person I have always wanted to be.
I am not going to New York or California. I am not going to spend my summer huddled in a perfectly-sized apartment by the beach, knocking out the next great American novel. After the end of this week winds down I will be left with palms open to the sky, attempting to catch answers to the extreme multitude of questions I am asking.
I am at a loss of who I am or what I am supposed to be doing. I long to travel and escape, but I also long to stay and wrap myself in the comforts found in my old, familiar life. The world is huge and terrifying, and I am just one person. I am just me, and the future has become the present.
By no means am I disappointed with my life or the decisions I have made. I would never seek to turn back and change anything that I have done. Everything, even my glorious, horrible mistakes, has helped me become the person I am. Or, that is, the person I am becoming. Whoever that is.
This is my life at a crossroads. Finishing college in a few months, either continuing a job or claiming a new one, moving into a new house. In the lack of the structure of University life, I am already feeling antsy.
College defines who we are. I am a college student, I am a sorority girl, I am, I am. Now, as new graduates, we must seek to define ourselves out of college as we are pushed into the future – into a world we thought we knew or think we know. And so we feign our maturity and preparedness, walking wide-eyed into these new, open spaces.
I’ve decided to bring back More Mondays, a weekly post series that will hopefully help you to beat the Monday blues! Featured in this post: Girls, xoJane, Pinterest, Big Hugs and Juice. Yes, Juice.
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Justin Lieberman, Super Supplemental #19, 2012. Collage mounted on canvas. 85 x 62”. Courtesy the artist.
Lieberman’s S. A. C. (Student Art Collective) currently participates in SculptureCenter’s 2012-2013 In Practice program, culminating in an exhibition of new work. Double Life opens at SculptureCenter on January 13, 5-7PM and runs through March 25.